Top Chinese Birthday Traditions and Tips for Health, Wealth, and Wellbeing

There are many Chinese birthday traditions. Chinese people calculate a person’s age according to the lunar calendar (Yīn lì in Chinese; 陰曆) without zeros, meaning that a newborn’s age is one.

Traditionally, Chinese people do not celebrate a birthday every year; rather, birthday celebrations in the form of elaborate banquets are reserved for the elderly and infants.

The very old and very young receive special consideration, because, in Chinese culture, the elderly are held in very high esteem, and it’s a family’s responsibility to preserve the bloodline with succeeding generations.

Some of the top Chinese birthday traditions and tips

Birthday names

• Integral birthdays: Birthdays in which the age contains the digit 9, which are called the “big celebration,” or “Dà qìng” in Chinese (大慶); or birthdays in which the age contains the digit 0, which are called the “formal celebration,” or “Zhèng qìng” in Chinese (正慶).
• Scattered birthdays: Birthdays in which the age contains the digits 1 through 8.

The most important birthdays

On a child’s first birthday, long noodles are always served up, as they represent long life, as well as red-dyed eggs, which represent happiness. (Image: Anekoho via Dreamstime)

When it comes to Chinese birthday traditions, a child’s first birthday is significant and can be celebrated according to either the lunar calendar or the Western calendar (陽曆 Yáng lì). Usually, the parents will put on a big banquet for family and friends. Long noodles (長壽麵 in Chinese, Cháng shòu miàn in pinyin) are always served up, as they represent long life, as well as red-dyed eggs, which represent happiness.

A fun tradition on the first birthday is to lay out various items, such as a pen, a stamp, an abacus, a flute, etc. The first item that the child grabs indicates his future career.

An ideal birthday present for a Chinese friend. (Image: Piliphoto via Dreamstime)

For example, the abacus means the child will become a successful businessman, while a pen indicates that the child will become a writer. This Chinese birthday tradition is called “drawing lots” (抓周 in Chinese, zhuā zhōu in pinyin) and originated in the Three Kingdoms period.

Sixty is a significant age because it is considered an entire life cycle. At age 60, the Chinese zodiac sign of the year, including both the animal and elemental zodiac, is the same as one’s birth year. The elemental zodiac is a cycle representing the five elements — metal, wood, water, fire, and earth.

A large banquet is usually prepared for a 60th birthday, and long noodles and peach-shaped dumplings are always served.

Chinese birthday traditions for food and gifts

Birthday cakes and long noodles are very popular. (Image: Renewer via Dreamstime)

• Children and the elderly: Long noodles symbolize longevity, and red-dyed eggs represent happiness.
• Elderly: “Peaches,” which are actually steamed dumplings shaped like peaches.
• Children: Red envelopes with money in them.

Tip: Do not give a clock as a birthday present to a Chinese person. The word clock is pronounced the same as death!

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