Respect is a fundamental aspect of our interactions with others. It not only reflects our character, but also has the potential to shape our success in various parts of life.
We will explore a heartwarming story highlighting respect’s significance, even in unexpected situations. This story revolves around the grandfather of a renowned Japanese entrepreneur, Yoshimitsu Tsutsumi, and the lessons he imparted to his grandson.
The encounter
A ragged beggar stood before a bustling dessert shop, emitting an unpleasant odor. The customers nearby wrinkled their noses in disgust. The shop assistant called out: “Move along, please.”
However, the beggar pulled out a few dirty banknotes and whispered: “I’d like to buy the smallest bun you have.”
The shop owner approached enthusiastically, taking out a steaming bun and handing it to the beggar. He bowed deeply and said: “Thank you for choosing us. Please come again!” The beggar, amazed by such treatment, left, never having experienced such kindness before.
Curiosity and lessons
Perplexed, the shop owner’s grandson approached him and asked: “Grandfather, why were you so kind to the beggar?”
The shop owner explained: “Though he is a beggar, he is also a customer. He spent a great deal of time and effort to earn that small amount of money to enjoy our desserts. It is rare and precious. How could I not serve him personally and show him my gratitude?”
The grandson inquired: “If that’s the case, why did you take his money?”
The shop owner replied: “Today, he was a customer, not someone seeking charity. It is essential to respect him as such. If I didn’t take his money, wouldn’t it be an insult to him? We must remember to respect every customer, even if they are beggars, as everything we have is given by our customers.”
Inspiration and success
This heartwarming story occurred in the dessert shop owned by the grandfather of Yoshimitsu Tsutsumi, a renowned modern-day Japanese entrepreneur. Tsutsumi’s grandfather left an indelible impression on him through his actions. Later in life, Tsutsumi shared this story with his employees, emphasizing the importance of respecting every customer.
Respecting others: An essential requirement
Respecting others is not only an essential requirement of being human, but also a reflection of our character and values. As the ancient Chinese philosopher Mencius said: “If you love others, others will love you; if you respect others, others will respect you.”
Expanding our hearts and minds
Having an open heart and treating everyone with kindness and respect, regardless of personal preferences or biases, is an act of courage and wisdom. By embracing this mindset, we create a harmonious environment and foster meaningful connections with others.
