Sometimes, when life knocks you down, help arrives in the form of people you least expect. These three types of people may be Heaven’s way of lifting you up — don’t overlook them.
1. The one who shakes you awake with harsh words
The ancients used to say: “Honest advice often sounds unpleasant, but it’s worth following.” That wisdom still holds true today.
When you’re confused or heading down the wrong path, someone may step in with brutal honesty. Their words might sting, but if you listen closely, you’ll find that what drives them is genuine concern.
My cousin went through this after her business collapsed. She spent her days lying in bed, surrounded by takeout containers, not even bothering to shower. One day, her best friend stormed in, yanked off the covers, and shouted: “What happened to the fire in you? What happened to the person who once swore they’d build something great?”
They didn’t speak for days after that. But looking back, my cousin admits that without that jolt, she might have stayed stuck for much longer.
It’s like the saying goes: “A strict teacher produces capable students.” Someone who dares to upset you to steer you right is someone who truly has your back.
2. The one who stays with you through hardship
There’s an old saying: “When disaster strikes, even birds who nest together fly apart.” Harsh, but often true.
That’s why someone who chooses to stand by you when everything falls apart — whether a partner, a friend, or a family member — is a rare and priceless gift.
There was a couple in our town who had been together for years but never officially married. The man’s business failed, and he was drowning in debt. Everyone urged the woman to walk away. “There’s no future with a man like that,” they said. But she held firm: “If he rises, I’ll stand by his side. If he falls, I’ll help him rise again.”
She worked construction jobs by day and ran a food stall by night. Every penny she earned went toward repaying his debts. Years later, when his new business finally succeeded, the first thing he did was give her the formal wedding she had long deserved — the grandest celebration the town had ever seen.
It’s like the old saying: “True love is revealed in hardship.” Anyone who would share their last piece of bread with you is someone Heaven has truly sent your way.
3. The one who teaches you real skills
There’s a saying: “Teach your apprentice, and you might starve as a master.” But some people are generous with their knowledge, even at their own expense.
Xiao Wang was fresh out of college when he joined a company with no experience. His manager, Mr. Zhang, took him under his wing, patiently guiding him through writing proposals, handling clients, and more.
Some colleagues whispered: “Why teach someone who might replace you?” But Mr. Zhang just smiled and said: “Watching a young person grow makes me happy.”
Xiao Wang didn’t let him down. He soon became a top performer and led his team to secure major contracts. To this day, he says, “Without Mr. Zhang, I wouldn’t be where I am.”
As the proverb goes: “Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day. Teach him to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime.” Money can solve short-term problems, but giving someone a skill changes their future.
Final thoughts
If you’re lucky enough to meet these three kinds of people, don’t take them for granted. They may be Heaven’s way of reaching out to help you.
And remember the old saying: “A single drop of kindness should be repaid with a gushing spring.” Be grateful, support one another, and treasure the rare bond that brings the right people into your life at just the right time.
Translated by Katy Liu
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