When your heart is shattered into a million pieces after the breakup of a relationship, sometimes the only thing that can make you feel human again is getting lost in a movie. Curling up on the couch while watching a film that mirrors your misery or inspires hope for the future can be just the escape you need.
Whether you need to cry it out or get your mojo back, these classic breakup movie picks have you covered.
The psychology behind romantic movies during a breakup
Romantic films often portray an idealized version of relationships that evoke longing or nostalgia for what you have or wish you had. While challenging, confronting these emotions through movies can help you process them and gain perspective. The stories and characters can provide comfort as you see others navigate the ups and downs of love.
In moderation, romantic films during a breakup can be cathartic. But be aware of their shortcomings and how they may negatively influence your views on relationships.
The best movie picks to watch for post-breakup recovery
A breakup can be challenging, so finding ways to heal and care for yourself is essential. Here are some of the best movie picks to help you heal and move on:
‘Crazy, Stupid, Love’
This 2011 romantic comedy, Crazy, Stupid, Love, is a heartwarming film that explores love and relationships. The story follows Cal, a middle-aged man whose wife Emily asks him for a divorce after 25 years of marriage. Cal struggles with the breakup, unsure of how to start over.
Fortunately, Cal meets Jacob, a young bachelor, at a bar. Jacob offers to teach Cal how to talk to girls. Cal reluctantly agrees, and Jacob gives him a makeover and lessons in confidence and charm. Meanwhile, Cal’s son Robbie has a crush on his babysitter, Jessica, who has feelings for Cal. This tangled web of relationships leads to comedic mishaps and misunderstandings.
Ultimately, Crazy, Stupid, Love is about rediscovering love and connections. Cal realizes he still cares deeply for Emily. The pair start to rekindle their relationship, remembering why they fell for each other years ago. Although bittersweet at times, this lighthearted film gives hope that lost love can be found again and new love may be found soon.
‘The Wedding Singer’
Set in 1985, Adam Sandler stars as Robbie Hart, a wedding singer whose heart is broken after being left at the altar. He meets Julia, a sweet waitress played by Drew Barrymore, who is also recovering from heartbreak.
Even though Robbie starts to be cynical and disheartened, his charm and humor return as he and Julia become friends. They bond over their shared pain and disappointment in relationships. As Robbie helps Julia plan her wedding, they realize they have feelings for each other.
Filled with ’80s nostalgia, humorous moments, and a soundtrack of hits from the era, The Wedding Singer reminds you that you can find love again.
‘How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days’
This movie follows Andie Anderson, a writer for a women’s magazine, and Benjamin Barry, an advertising executive. Andie is writing an article about driving a man away in 10 days.
Benjamin bets his boss he can make a woman fall in love with him in 10 days. Andie and Benjamin start dating, unaware of each other’s schemes, but they eventually fall for each other for real.
This amusing story shows how easy it is to misjudge someone or jump to conclusions in new relationships. It reminds you not to make snap judgments about all men (or women) just because one relationship ended badly. The witty dialog and chemistry between the lead actors, Kate Hudson and Matthew McConaughey, will make you laugh and lift your spirits.
‘500 Days of Summer’
The romantic comedy 500 Days of Summer is an excellent film after a breakup. It follows the relationship between Tom, a greeting card writer, and Summer, an aspiring architect.
Over 500 days, the film shows Tom’s journey through the ups and downs of this modern relationship. As Tom reflects on the good times they shared, like dancing in the park and trips to the record store, you start to understand why he fell for Summer. However, the relationship ultimately ends in heartbreak for Tom.
Though the ending is bittersweet, the movie provides an authentic look at relationships and how people can view love differently. Tom is a hopeless romantic who believes in destiny, while Summer does not share his view of love and marriage.
The film suggests that a breakup, however painful, can be an opportunity to understand better yourself and what you want in a partner.
‘Under the Tuscan Sun’
Under the Tuscan Sun is a heartwarming film that follows Frances Mayes’ journey to overcome heartbreak. After learning her husband is unfaithful, Frances impulsively buys a villa in Tuscany to start her life anew. She makes new friends, learns to appreciate life’s simple pleasures again, and gains a sense of independence she’s never known before.
With each coat of sunny yellow paint, every sip of chianti, and a bite of pasta, Frances begins to heal slowly. She rediscovers her love of writing and passion for life. By the end of her Tuscan adventure, Frances emerges triumphant, transformed into a confident, radiant woman ready to embark on new adventures.
Through humor and poignancy, Under the Tuscan Sun reminds you of resilience in the face of heartbreak and the power of new surroundings to inspire renewal. After watching, you’ll want to pack your bags for Italy!
Healing through narratives
While heartbreak is intensely painful, these stories show that coming out the other side often makes you wiser, stronger, and more compassionate. So grab your popcorn, curl up on the couch, and let these heartwarming tales remind you that this painful chapter will pass. Happier days and new love await you, even if you can’t see them yet.
