A woman’s fortune can be discerned from her demeanor and behavior. Her actions, clothing, and overall presentation can reveal her taste and status, and it’s easy to gauge her level of refinement with just a few observations.
Clothing and behavior as indicators
In the heat of summer, many women opt for more revealing clothes to stay cool. However, such choices can reflect poorly on their ability to support and uplift their families. There’s an old saying: “A woman should cultivate a man into a sage, not a beast drooling over her body.” While this might sound harsh, it holds a fundamental truth. Women should learn to be reserved and conservative because a woman has the power to influence the prosperity of her family. A woman’s ability to conceal herself is a testament to her self-cultivation.
Women are associated with yin, which implies concealment. The most apparent place to start is with clothing. Women should avoid overly revealing attire. This is analogous to how the earth, representing yin, must retain moisture to avoid becoming a desert. A barren land cannot nurture forests. Unfortunately, modern women often miss the essence of concealment, and those who cannot keep themselves concealed frequently lack fortune.
The power of restraint
The more reserved a woman is, the greater her blessings, and she is more likely to be a woman who can hold things together. If a woman’s kidney energy is insufficient, she often finds it hard to sit still, lacks endurance, and feels compelled to be constantly on the move. This is undesirable as a woman’s physical condition determines her quality and fate.
A woman who can keep herself composed is inherently steady and can remain calm under pressure. This is like the difference between a safe and a handbag. A safe stays put, holding valuable treasures, whereas a handbag is constantly moved, holding only temporary items.
Calmness as a sign of fortune
A person with significant blessings has a notable feature: they possess enough composure and are not easily swayed by external influences. They maintain a calm and collected demeanor, which is a sign of fortune. Without blessings, it’s difficult to remain composed. An impure physical body makes it challenging to develop wisdom.
Consider someone who desires a luxury car. If the inability to acquire a luxury car causes distress, it merely shows that their blessings are limited to the value of that car. This material desire drives their emotional response. When blessings surpass the value of a luxury car, the car loses its appeal and doesn’t stir emotions; the same goes for houses. When a person’s blessings exceed the value of a villa, it also fails to move them.
The impact of speech
The mouth can quickly deplete blessings. In a household, if the woman of the house cannot guard her words, it will be challenging for that family to thrive. The virtue of speech is crucial. Some might argue that they haven’t committed significant wrongdoings like killing or stealing, but only occasionally say a few words. Can this really deplete blessings significantly?
In reality, the words spoken reflect the heart. Once a thought arises, it affects the entire atmosphere.
Source of a woman’s blessings
So where do a woman’s blessings come from? Are they from a wealthy husband or boss? Neither. They come from her. Everyone’s blessings are accumulated over the years through kind thoughts, good deeds, and actions filled with positive energy.
Translated by Elaine
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