Have you noticed that as a person grows in virtue, harmful people and negative situations seem to drift away on their own? This is the effect of blessings. In this context, blessings are not luck, wealth, or favors — they are the invisible accumulation of virtue, kindness, and moral integrity. Blessings are built through reflection, honesty, compassion, and right action. They purify the heart and sharpen the spirit, creating an energy that naturally aligns with goodness and repels negativity.
There is a subtle law at work in life: When your blessings are strong, harmful people and circumstances cannot resonate with your energy. They do not need to be confronted or pushed away — they simply drift out of your life, unable to attach themselves. At its core, fate is not random; it flows according to frequency. Understanding this helps explain why some connections flourish while others fade.
Like frequencies attract
There’s an interesting phenomenon: When you dwell on complaints, the people around you often mirror the same negativity. But as you begin to reflect, cultivate your heart, and practice virtue, those who thrive on trouble and scheming gradually find nothing to latch onto. This is not about being superior or inferior — it is the natural result of different energies moving along different paths.
As you nurture blessings and virtue, your presence becomes calm, gentle, and luminous. Negative people and harmful situations instinctively avoid the light — they retreat into darkness and quietly fade away.

Blessings are the best talisman
You don’t need to blame others or the heavens for small-minded people, nor do you need to analyze why others hurt you. Simply by quietly cultivating blessings and virtue, you render negativity powerless against you. A person with blessings carries warmth in their words and light in their actions; even when facing malice, they can transform it into understanding or goodwill.
This is because the way of Heaven responds naturally: Those who do good receive blessings, while those who act with malice invite misfortune. The purer and more virtuous you become, the less likely it is that harmful people will come near. Blessings, in essence, are your invisible talisman, protecting and guiding you without force or confrontation.
A pure heart repels darkness
Many people believe that avoiding bad people requires being “harsh” or forceful, but in truth, separation comes through purity. Purify your heart, purify your thoughts, and purify your actions. The less you complain, and the more you express gratitude, the lighter your resentment becomes and the greater your compassion grows. Your personal energy — or magnetic field — becomes clearer, and those with dark intentions naturally drift away.
A person’s fate is not won through struggle or confrontation, but cultivated through virtue and blessings. By nurturing blessings, you attract good relationships; by practicing virtue, you receive the subtle guidance and assistance of heaven. Purity is the true shield that shapes your life and keeps negativity at a distance.
Don’t chase the light, be the light
Do not cling to changing others or harbor resentment. Wishing others would act differently only drains your energy and dims your own light. Instead, turn inward: cultivate inner stability, practice kindness, and live with virtue. Focus on becoming a person whose presence radiates calm, warmth, and integrity.
When your light shines clearly from within, it naturally illuminates your surroundings. You do not need to push or correct; your energy alone sets the tone. Those who cannot resonate with your light — people driven by malice, negativity, or selfishness — will gradually drift away. Those who align with your energy are drawn to you effortlessly.
True influence is never about forcing change or chasing approval; it comes from embodying the qualities you wish to see in the world. Like the sun, which gives warmth without discrimination, your light touches those who are receptive and leaves no room for darkness to linger. The more you refine your character, the brighter and steadier your light becomes, and the more naturally life aligns in your favor.

Conclusion
Chaos and disturbances in life are rarely caused entirely by others — they often arise from insufficient blessings and unstable energy within ourselves. When you cultivate your heart, practice virtue, and accumulate blessings through your actions, your path gradually becomes clearer and more harmonious.
You do not need to chase away bad people or force circumstances to change. True “clearing” comes from improving yourself — refining your thoughts, actions, and energy. As your blessings grow and your inner level rises, all low-frequency, draining influences naturally drift away, unable to resonate with your light.
Focus on living with virtue, kindness, and integrity. Let your actions generate goodness, and let your inner light guide your path. In doing so, you naturally avoid malicious people and situations, maintain purity of heart, and walk a brighter, steadier path.
Translated by Joseph Wu and edited by Tatiana Denning
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