Although life’s magnetic field is invisible, it profoundly influences your life. In physics, the law of universal gravitation states that any two objects in nature attract each other. This principle also applies to human interactions. If you make yourself excellent, you will attract excellent people.
Rhonda Byrne wrote in The Power: “Everyone has a magnetic field around them, and no matter where you go, this magnetic field follows you, attracting people and things with similar fields.” The type of magnetic field determines the kind of life you will lead.
The positivity or negativity of emotions determines your fate
American psychology professor David R. Hawkins proposed the concept of “levels of energy” after more than 20 years of clinical experiments. People with lower energy levels tend to spread negative emotions, while those with higher energy levels make interactions more pleasant. Emotions between people are indeed contagious.
Being around people with negative magnetic fields can accumulate “emotional garbage,” forming an emotional black hole that can consume your positive energy. Conversely, being with people with positive magnetic fields can make you more optimistic and confident, even in adversity.
Your magnetic energy field is influenced by your interactions. Associating with different people affects the strength of your magnetic energy. Long-term interaction with negative people weakens your energy, while positive interactions enhance it. For the rest of your life, may you be close to those with positive energy and become a source of positive energy, attracting and transforming others who need it.
Being with excellent people is crucial
One winter, two top students in a dormitory woke up early on a Saturday morning, as usual, to study. Another student, who wanted to sleep in, remarked: “It’s Saturday; why get up so early for self-study?” The two top students ignored him and left. Shortly after, the student who wanted to sleep in got up and went out. An excellent circle is a powerful magnetic field that propels you forward even when lazy. As the “Law of Attraction” suggests, to become the person you want to be, you should surround yourself with those who embody that.
If you want to learn English, make friends who are good at it; if you want to lose weight, join a fitness community; if you want to gain knowledge, join a reading group. To become more excellent, associate with excellent people. Zeng Guofan once said: “The success or failure of a lifetime depends on the quality of friends.” The magnetic field of your social circle determines your success. Walking with high achievers helps you become one.
Emit love to attract love
Romain Rolland, a French dramatist, novelist, essayist, art historian, and mystic who was awarded the Nobel Prize for Literature in 1915, said: “The most beautiful music of the soul is kindness.” Only kindness and love are irreplaceable among all the beautiful things in the world.
The 2008 Wenchuan earthquake in China changed many lives. At that time, a girl named Qin Ling had just finished her college entrance exams. Due to the earthquake, her home was destroyed, and her family had to live with neighbors. Her father was disabled, her mother was often ill, and she had two younger sisters. All the hope and pressure fell on her shoulders.
After learning about her situation, a kind-hearted person, Tan Zhenghua, decided to help her. He guided her in filling out her college application, suggested she apply for clinical medicine, and raised 7,000 yuan for her first-year tuition. Tan Zhenghua supported her family for five years, sending living expenses to Qin Ling and funding her sisters’ education.
In 2019, Tan Zhenghua suddenly collapsed during a meeting and was diagnosed with a brain aneurysm, a life-threatening condition if not treated promptly. The small hospital couldn’t perform the surgery, and he needed to be transferred to another hospital urgently. His wife was out of town on a business trip.
Upon hearing the news, Qin Ling, who worked at the hospital, immediately coordinated the transfer. After Tan Zhenghua was transferred, Qin Ling and her husband cared for him like family, just as Tan Zhenghua had cared for them. Thanks to timely intervention, Tan Zhenghua’s surgery was successful, and he was out of danger.
Love begets love, and kindness returns to those who give it. From Tan Zhenghua helping Qin Ling with her education to Qin Ling saving his life, the seeds of kindness sown years ago bore fruit 11 years later. Kindness is like a cycle; the goodwill and love you give will return to you in another form.
The good and kindness you show to others ultimately benefits you. Everything has a magnetic pull, like the law of action and reaction. Your kindness will create a magnetic field around you, attracting more love into your life. Being kind to others brings blessings in return.
Your magnetic field determines your fate
The so-called magnetic field is essentially your attraction. The magnetic field around you continuously transmits your values and preferences, attracting more like-minded people. As stated in The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, there is a powerful law of attraction in the universe: What you focus on, you attract into your life.
Although the magnetic fields in your life are invisible, they quietly influence your destiny. Everyone around you today is a seed unknowingly planted in the past. To be with excellent people, you must first cultivate yourself. “When the flower blooms, the butterfly will come.”
As long as you become the best version of yourself, you will naturally attract like-minded souls. Over the long years, refine yourself into a more excellent and independent individual.
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