As a child, your parents are the center of your universe. They shape your reality and sense of self in profound ways, both good and bad. But as you grow, you see your parents’ humanity and imperfections. You realize they made mistakes in how they raised you. In that sense, you carry the emotional scars ...
Is it possible for a person to change their destiny? This is an age-old question. A sentence in the ancient Chinese text Three Character Classic mentions: “Dou Yanshan, a model of virtue, taught his five sons well, leaving behind a legacy.” Today, we delve into the transformative story of Dou Yanshan, a man who rewrote his ...
You’ve all been there — you did something horrible you regret doing or let go of a fantastic opportunity that would better your life. Dwelling on regrets made you miserable and hindered personal growth and overall well-being. Some may have even tried to undo some actions to lessen the guilt. But it’s not that easy. ...
It is said that humans are not creatures of logic, but rather of emotions. Human as you are, it is natural for you to feel resentment, hurt, or pain when other people hurt you. Forgiveness is complex, and it involves an intense and complicated process. Before you can forgive the person who has caused you ...
In today’s world, respecting and getting along with others may sometimes seem complicated. Because everyone has their feelings, thoughts, and beliefs, which may differ from yours, you may have difficulty being tolerant, mainly if your emotions get involved. But suppose you can follow some basic rules and principles regarding interpersonal relationships, thinking of others first ...
Some say you can never achieve inner peace without forgiveness, which is often correct. Ho’Oponopono teaches forgiveness to help restore self-love and balance. A grudge is like a weighted stone; carrying it underwater will sink you further. And though forgiveness may feel like a sharp sword, it opens your heart toward a weightless future. Letting ...
There are times when people wrong us or harm us intentionally or unintentionally. Getting angry with them is the most natural reaction in such situations. Feelings of revenge may even pop up. But what about feelings of forgiveness? Have you stopped to think that all your reactions may hurt and harm yourself? Buddha said: “You ...
A family home is where everyone’s life begins and is an inevitable destination for those born into this world. Traditionally, around the world, and in particular for Chinese people, a home is considered to be their secure fortress or a place of refuge. In The Book of Rites, it states: “When fathers and sons are close and ...
Malala Yousafzai has set an example by forgiving those who attempted to put an untimely end to her life. She has been able to see through wrongdoing, and her inner strength is tremendous, as seen by the world. She has shown what forgiveness is all about and how one can rise above the mundane by ...
It is wonderful to have a harmonious relationship, where both people feel understood and listened to. There is no need for convincing or ego-tussling in these relationships, just a comfortable fit like a hand in a glove. Only when you understand your partners can you begin to harmonize with them. What is more important than ...