People who get entangled in trivial matters often find it difficult to accomplish great things.
Lincoln dismisses trivial matters
In early 1864, General Grant implemented a new strategic approach, leading the Union Army in fierce battles. His efforts resulted in continuous victories against the Confederate forces, pushing deeper into Southern territory and bringing the war closer to a successful conclusion.
One day, the Secretary of War, Edwin Stanton, a petty man who enjoyed focusing on others’ flaws, came to the White House with a confidential document from the front lines.
“Mr. President,” Stanton said sternly, “I have an extremely important confidential report that you must take seriously and punish the person involved severely!”
“Oh, what is this major issue?” Lincoln, who was busy, put down his pen and looked up.
“We have solid evidence that Grant has been drinking in the camp!” Stanton declared, handing over the document and adding, “You should immediately remove him from his position as General of the Union Army! If he can’t control his own drinking, how can he control the entire army?”
“Is that so?” Lincoln responded, but he did not take the document. Instead, he asked: “Does it say what brand of whiskey Grant drinks?”
“No, I don’t think that’s important,” Stanton replied.
“That is important,” Lincoln said, “because I want to send a case of that brand to my other generals so they can all win battles too!”
His response left Stanton red-faced and embarrassed. He quickly turned around and left sheepishly with his “important confidential report.”
History later proved that Lincoln was right not to punish Grant. This “drunkard” general, with his exceptional military talent, ultimately brought the Civil War to a victorious end, helping Lincoln achieve his long-cherished goal of abolishing slavery.
Focusing on minor details often prevents people from achieving great things. Adhering to strict and outdated standards can confine a person to a narrow mindset, hindering their ability to explore and change the broader world.
Lincoln demands a gift
Lincoln was known for his integrity after becoming president, but surprisingly, there is a story where he forcefully demanded a gift from a guest.
One day, a gentleman named Smith visited Lincoln, and they had a pleasant conversation. The gentleman saw Lincoln’s young son, who was lively and adorable, and wanted to hold him. However, the little boy was shy and reluctant. The gentleman pointed to a bracelet on his wrist and said to the boy: “If you behave and let me hold you, I will give you this bracelet.”
The bracelet was very exquisite, and the boy liked it. He obediently sat on the gentleman’s lap, allowing himself to be held. Finally, as the gentleman prepared to leave, Lincoln reminded him to give the bracelet to his son. The gentleman promptly said the bracelet was a family heirloom and could not be given away.
“Give it to my son!” Lincoln sternly said, “I don’t want my son to think that I once hosted a man who doesn’t keep his word.” Reluctantly, the gentleman handed over the bracelet to his son.
This incident did not tarnish Lincoln’s reputation. Instead, it further revealed his honesty and integrity to the public.
These stories of Lincoln highlight the importance of focusing on what truly matters and maintaining integrity, both of which are principles that inspire greatness and trust.
Translated by Katy Liu
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